Digging deeper into how to give effective feedback is the topic again today.  Last week was the second look at the 3 key elements of giving productive feedback.  We explored in depth how to Be Honest.  Today we’re going to look at how to Be Clear. This is the final and, I think, most important part of the discussion.  You’re going to tell them exactly what you want them to change in their behavior.

Remember, when giving feedback, it’s important to…

• Be Specific
• Be Honest
• Be Clear

Today is about how to be so clear the other person knows EXACTLY what you want them to do.  It’s the perfect way to complete your thoughts — creating an effective feedback opportunity.

Encouraging Word of the Day:  Ephesians 4:25  “So let us put away the lies, and speak the truth to one another, because we are all part of one another.”

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Today I share 5 Key ideas that can help you enjoy life more.  You will experience more clarity, develop meaningful relationships and savor each moment with deeper appreciation as you implement these ideas.  Gleaned from my time at the LAUNCH Conference and immediately after, if you work through these ideas you just may change your life!

So here are the 5 big takeaways…

1. Discover your Assets
2. Broaden your perspective
3. Find ways to connect
4. Surround yourself with people who care
5. Pay attention to your heart

Encouraging Word for the Week:  Proverbs 19:20-21 “Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.  Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.”

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Digging deeper into how to give effective feedback is the topic today.  Last week was the first look at the 3 key elements of giving productive feedback.  We explored in depth how to Be Specific.  Today we’re going to look at how to Be Honest.  (This is not easy!)

Remember, when giving feedback, it’s important to…

• Be Specific
• Be Honest
• Be Clear

Today is more about how to stay out of judgement or assumption, and instead, Be Honest.

Encouraging Word of the Day:  Ephesians 4:25  “So let us put away the lies, and speak the truth to one another, because we are all part of one another.”

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Don’t you hate it when there’s something that needs to be addressed, but you just don’t know how to broach the subject?  Met too!  So today I’m giving us both some reminders on how to give really effective feedback.  Feedback that grows connection rather than alienates.

I’m going to focus on 3 main elements of giving effective feedback over the next 3 weeks.

When giving feedback, it’s important to…

• Be Specific
• Be Honest
• Be Clear

Today is all about how to avoid judgement or assumption, and instead, be specific.

Encouraging Word of the Day:  Ephesians 4:25  “So let us put away the lies, and speak the truth to one another, because we are all part of one another.”

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Oh I loved this interview!  AskAnnaMosely.com is a leader in the online space of the home arts.  And Anna is so authentic and down to earth.  You will find this interview just loaded with practical and inspiring ideas.  And you’ll love getting to know Anna even better too!

• How to find inspiration
• Using the calendar to ensure “me time”
• How to keep your husband a priority
• Recognizing seasons in life
• Creative ideas for how to get help

Encouraging Word of the Week:  1 Peter 4:10 (The Voice)  “Use whatever gift you’ve received for the good of one another so that you can show yourselves to be good stewards of God’s grace in all it’s varieties.”

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I can’t believe I haven’t done this one before!  It seems crazy when this is actually the most important keystone of all communication and connection skills.

Thankfully, I have an amazing sister-in-law who reminded me of this yesterday, so I get to share it with you today!

Key reminders about being yourself:

1.  It’s scary.

2.  It’s easier to wear a mask.

3.  It’s totally worth it.

Encouraging Word:  Romans 12:9a (The Message) “Love others well, and don’t hide behind a mask; love authentically.“

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Kathi is a riot.  I’m just going to start with that.  She’s also a well know writer and speaker.  Her latest book, Clutter Free, is not only super helpful, it’s also a fun read.  My interview with her is also pretty darn fun too. I think you’ll both laugh and walk away with some great ideas for creating a more clutter free life.  Enjoy!

Key Ideas:

Part 1 – Interview Highlights

• A funny Alec Baldwin story and her podcast “You’ve Got This”
• Finding your direction
• The role mentors can play in your life
• The true cost of clutter

Part 2 – Decluttering Our Lives

• Making hard choices
• Being realistic
• Staying focused
• Perspective Reset – Tim Challies article

Website Links

www.kathilipp.com

www.clutterfreebook.com

canva.com

Kathi’s Recommended Reading

Clutter Free, Quick and Easy Steps to Amplifying Your Space, by Kathi Lipp.

Communicating for a Change: Seven Keys to Irresistible Communication (North Point Resources), by Andy Stanley and Lane Jones.

The Power of a Positive No: Save The Deal Save The Relationship and Still Say No, by William Ury.

StrengthsFinder 2.0, by Tom Rath.

Connect with Kathi

On Facebook

On Twitter

Encouraging Word of the Week:  Ecclesiastes 5:10  “Whoever loves money will never have enough money. Whoever loves luxury will not be content with abundance. This also is pointless.”         – I know this is not very encouraging, but seriously, doesn’t it just fit perfectly with our discussion today!  It’s about relationships, not about stuff!

Question:  Are you a cluttery person?  How do you manage to keep it down?  I’d love your ideas too!  Just leave a comment below, or on FB or Twitter.

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